Calculators
Two numbers decide most purchases: the flow rate your house needs at peak, and what a system costs to own for ten years.
Flow rate sizing
Peak demand is the fixtures that can run at the same time, not every fixture in the house. Typical US flow rates: shower 2.0 gpm, bathroom faucet 1.2, kitchen faucet 1.8, dishwasher 1.5, washing machine 2.0, toilet refill 1.6.
10-year cost
Purchase price plus every replacement part the maker lists, over ten years, plus installation.